Infidelity

Infidelity, affair, deceit, is bad words be unfaithful. Where does the unfaithfulness begin, however? At thoughts, at feelings or only at kisses or the exchange of tenderness? Or else only at the sexual intercourse?

The reasons for unfaithfulness in a partnership can be different individually, such as:
• Sexual discontent in the partnership
• The exciting at an infidelity
• The attraction of the new one
• The sexual appeal
• Confirmation for the own one self-esteem: I am still attractive for the other sex

For men, as a rule, an infidelity doesn't mean any emotional relationship. For younger women the feelings play an important role in an affair, older women attach rather more value to a good sex. It will, however, distinguish between an infidelity and a lasting sexual relation outside the partnership.

There are different symptoms which can indicate an unfaithfulness of the partner. These are the sudden wish after new sexual practices or declining sexual activities. Further striking behaviors with the partner are new interests, secret telephone calls, SMS or establish sudden of the telephone surprising more frequent meetings overtime with friends at presence of the partner.

The unfaithfulness belongs to the bad events in a partnership. One should consider it because of this well before one dares on an infidelity. Although the situations frequently give up and one has no time to muse for a long time. It must be weighed up well, what one risks. If the unfaithfulness is discovered, the consequences are a disappointment from the two sides, the rage of the deceived partner and perhaps a ruined relation. Men feel hurt and hurt in her manly pride. As a rule, women are looking for the causes in the case of an infidelity of the partner at themselves first. You think the infidelity is up to them of a sign what can be in lower self-esteem.

What happens after the infidelity? How and when can partner report to it about it? Partners who already suspect something of the unfaithfulness of the partner unconsciously don't want to admit this. You are afraid of conflicts and changes of unpleasant feelings. If a partnership works well, this survives a single infidelity mostly. This is the case if the infidelity in inebriated condition on different celebrations or parties often happens, to colleagues. If it happens, however, once in a while, this doesn't cope any more with the relation usually. It can be the reason an infidelity to reconsider a chance, the relation once again to make thoughts to themselves about a long-standing relation again and judge.

An affair leads to a relation rarely, familiarity and proximity are thus hardly connected. Primarily under singles sit down under pressure permanently to be attractive and desirable at the other sex. This can lead to psychic loads. Orgasm disturbances or impotence can appear. If the infidelity was "only" one of erotic adventures without feelings, it is often hidden around the feelings of the partner not to injured. If the unfaithfulness remains undiscovered, the guilty conscience can be very charging opposite the deceived partner for many. One also can this fall ill at the permanent guilty conscience opposite deceived partners.