Possible alternatives to the child wish medical treatment

1. work out more newly life prospects

Many pairs are not expecting any babies after very effortful, long medical medical treatments either. For the pairs in question this has to be often accepted very hard. The pairs learn their definite lie by the failed in vitro fertilizations what having a baby concerns. It is a long and painful process to accept this finality. Some pairs cannot cope with it that they cannot have any babies of all things. In such cases a piece of psychological advice which opens up new life prospects and purposes in life can help.

Other pairs at which a child wish medical treatment has failed now definitely feel the conclusion of the therapy when making easier. There is clearness and the permanent alternating hot and cold bath of the feelings is ended. One returns again to a sex life without calendars and medicine and follows other common interests. The pairs of the following questions should go and stand for another life planning and the wider common journey through life after an unsuccessful child wish medical treatment:

Why actually did we want a child? Do we still have common interesteds and objectives apart from the child wish? Which ones are these and how can we make her come true? What do we have joy in common at? Otherwise what is still important to us at the partnership?

2. Surrogate motherhood

The expression often fells surrogate motherhood to be in connection with this unintentionally childless. One describes the process of delivering the child by a so-called surrogate mother as a surrogate motherhood. There is this possibility if the woman cannot get pregnant because of a womb illness or a womb operation. However, the patient must be able to form fertilization capable ovums. The ovums are taken from the patient, stimulated with the sperm cells of the partner and advertised into the healthy uterus of the surrogate mother. If it comes to the pregnancy, the surrogate mother delivers the child. The surrogate motherhood is forbidden after the embryo protection law in Germany.

3. The adoption

Many pairs find after the failed attempts to be having babies of one's own completely new life prospects. You follow new hobbies, commit themselves more strongly in the profession or in social projects or invest much time in common businesses. However, there also are partners who can't imagine a life without children. For them an adoption can be an alternative to children of one's own. The pair may not all wishes, though, these to a child of their own had transferred them to the adopted child. One must make clear quite clearly to himself that the adopted child isn't used genetically with the adoptive parents, and it was born by other people a life needs welfare and love for a long time. The adopted child has the same rights like a physical child and is treated as equivalent to him seen legally. The success of an adoption depends quite decisively on the realistic expectations and the internal attitude to the new member of the family. These are legally specifiedly the adoption authorities to decide to the welfare of the child always.


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